Isn’t it rude that someone was talking about me hurting their feelings to someone else? Why didn’t they conf ront me instead?

Answer:I’m sorry to hear that you feel hurt by something someone said. Obviously, I can’t speak for what another person may have said, but there are a few things that might be going on here that would help me better understand your perspective. First, it could be the case that this other person lacked empathy and went out of their way to tell you an off-target story about themselves to show how they supposedly have been mistreated in the past. In this situation, it feels like they don’t really care about your feelings. Secondst, it could very well be a sign of a lack of self-confidence or low self esteem which leads them to use any excuse possible–and sometimes even creating one

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